I am Shashi Solluna, a Tantric Facilitator and CoachI am passionate about the journey of empowerment, especially in the areas of sex, love and awakening.
When I first entered the world of Tantra (aged 21), I didn't know it but I was disempowered in so many ways. I was looking for the guru, the healer or the partner to "save" me and awaken my sexual life force and open my heart (and preferably give me that spiritual experience I has dreamed of!) I found that man. A more experienced tantric man whom I fell in love with. But I soon discovered that he was not going to save me after all! In fact as I discovered how much he knew, it only made me realize how much I still needed to learn. It was time to join a workshop for myself and start my own sexual healing... |
That realization was the start of a journey to discover Tantra, Tao and relationship tools that would end up becoming my life path.
After many years of dedication on this path, I now teach Tantra to women and couples around the world and online. I share ancient tools from the Tao Tantric Arts that empower you to awaken sexual energy and use it for bringing more vitality, creativity, love and consciousness into your life and your relationship.
After many years of dedication on this path, I now teach Tantra to women and couples around the world and online. I share ancient tools from the Tao Tantric Arts that empower you to awaken sexual energy and use it for bringing more vitality, creativity, love and consciousness into your life and your relationship.
Discover the Spiritual Secrets of Sexuality...
What is Empowered Intimacy?
Empowered Intimacy is about taking full responsibility for your sexuality, your emotional life, your relationships, your growth and your life!
This is the only way in which we can truly step into the life we have always longed for.
▶ You don't need to wait for someone else to teach you.
▶ You don't need to wait for your partner to change.
▶ You don't need to wait to be swept off your feet.
All that you have longed for is just waiting to awaken within you!
This is the only way in which we can truly step into the life we have always longed for.
▶ You don't need to wait for someone else to teach you.
▶ You don't need to wait for your partner to change.
▶ You don't need to wait to be swept off your feet.
All that you have longed for is just waiting to awaken within you!
Find your Empowered Intimacy with Radical Self-Responsibility
Responsibility is not the same as blame. There are things that may have happened to us that were not our fault. However, we can still take responsibility for the healing process. In this way, we can take back our power from anyone that might have hurt us in the past, and start to create a love life that we truly deserve!
Why Empowered Intimacy?
We tend to connect intimacy with codependency. As soon as we enter relationship we give up responsibility for our own happiness and put that all upon the shoulders of our partner!
At first this creates positive projections and makes us see our partner as our saviour! We enter a kind of rose-tinted honeymoon stage. We blast our expectations upon the other and before they've had a chance to prove us wrong, we really see them as the perfect one.
Needless to say, with time of course they start to "let us down", as few humans can really fulfil another's high expectations! Then we project our disappointments. We nag, complain or try to change them to fit our perfect plan.
It feels like yet another man/woman has let us down. Is no one to be trusted?
Either we stay put and deal with deep dissatisfaction. Or we reclaim our truth and march off to find it elsewhere.
Yet there is another option.
That is to find our Empowered Intimacy.
This is a path of radical self-responsibility. It involves taking back the responsibility we gave to our partner, activating our own tantric empowerment, and meeting the other from a place of fullness instead of an emptiness they need to fill.
Using ancient techniques from Tantra and Tao, we can learn to:
▶ Be sexy even without our partner turning us on.
▶ Be sexy even when you don't have a partner.
▶ Be happy regardless of what our partner is doing.
▶ Know when to surrender and when to state our own boundaries.
▶ Heal past traumas so that we can step out of any disempowered patterns.
▶ Move through our triggers more efficiently.
▶ Overcome feelings of compromise by choosing your experience within your relationship.
▶ Create relationships with less processing and more time for fun!
Creating the perfect relationship is not about fixing it, nor searching for a better one! It's about shifting your inner relationship and creating an inner harmony that radiates out into your relationship.
Why Empowered Intimacy?
We tend to connect intimacy with codependency. As soon as we enter relationship we give up responsibility for our own happiness and put that all upon the shoulders of our partner!
At first this creates positive projections and makes us see our partner as our saviour! We enter a kind of rose-tinted honeymoon stage. We blast our expectations upon the other and before they've had a chance to prove us wrong, we really see them as the perfect one.
Needless to say, with time of course they start to "let us down", as few humans can really fulfil another's high expectations! Then we project our disappointments. We nag, complain or try to change them to fit our perfect plan.
It feels like yet another man/woman has let us down. Is no one to be trusted?
Either we stay put and deal with deep dissatisfaction. Or we reclaim our truth and march off to find it elsewhere.
Yet there is another option.
That is to find our Empowered Intimacy.
This is a path of radical self-responsibility. It involves taking back the responsibility we gave to our partner, activating our own tantric empowerment, and meeting the other from a place of fullness instead of an emptiness they need to fill.
Using ancient techniques from Tantra and Tao, we can learn to:
▶ Be sexy even without our partner turning us on.
▶ Be sexy even when you don't have a partner.
▶ Be happy regardless of what our partner is doing.
▶ Know when to surrender and when to state our own boundaries.
▶ Heal past traumas so that we can step out of any disempowered patterns.
▶ Move through our triggers more efficiently.
▶ Overcome feelings of compromise by choosing your experience within your relationship.
▶ Create relationships with less processing and more time for fun!
Creating the perfect relationship is not about fixing it, nor searching for a better one! It's about shifting your inner relationship and creating an inner harmony that radiates out into your relationship.
Check out my Online Tantra Courses
From Trauma To Tantra
This online course is an additional resource for anyone recovering from trauma. It draws from many standard tools in the trauma-healing world, and in combined with tantric tools to guide the user on their path to healing. Tantra For Couples
This is an eight-pert series for couples who want to bring some tantric practices into the relationship. Each episode brings a different practice for the couple to explore. Tantra Made Easy
This is a fully comprehensive Tantra training for couples or individuals. It follows the book "Tantra Made Easy", bringing the practices to life. |
Tao Tantric Academy
This is a series of short courses in the Tao Tantric Arts. Learn simple Qigong to open your heart,move your energy and cultivate sexual energy. |
LEARN MORE ABOUT SHASHI
Shashi is a leader in the arts of Taoist Sexual Arts and Tantra. These art forms are about healing suppression of our natural life force energy. She guides and empowers people to activate their sexual-creative energy and facilitate it flowing through the body and energy system. This brings an awakened vitality, a flowing creativity and a sense of connection to the Universe.
How can you access the hidden secrets of Tao and Tantra and use them to enliven your life?
Shashi is a leader in the arts of Taoist Sexual Arts and Tantra. These art forms are about healing suppression of our natural life force energy. She guides and empowers people to activate their sexual-creative energy and facilitate it flowing through the body and energy system. This brings an awakened vitality, a flowing creativity and a sense of connection to the Universe.
How can you access the hidden secrets of Tao and Tantra and use them to enliven your life?
Join my Podcast...
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Teacher Trainings
Become a Certified Facilitator with Tao Tantric Arts

Discover the ancient secrets of the Taoist Sexual Arts and Tantra, offering you the opportunity to transform the role of sexual energy in your life. Discover how sexual energy can be a vehicle for the alchemy of fear and suffering into love and consciousness.
These practices, methods, transmissions and theories used for thousands of years yet can benefit you today and change the way you embrace life.
In Tao Tantric Arts Trainings you will have the opportunity to:
The Tantric and Taoist Arts can transform your life on many levels.
Return to your natural sexuality: your true nature embodied. Awaken the shakti lifeforce energy within you and become radiantly alive once more! And discover an energy that is naturally regenerative...it does not peak and later collapse. When you learn to channel your sexual energy you can return to the energy of your youth and stay there! (these are not called "longevity practices" for nothing!!
When sexuality and Spirituality merge, then each moment of your life is aligned in the creation of Love! This is what you came here for!
These practices, methods, transmissions and theories used for thousands of years yet can benefit you today and change the way you embrace life.
In Tao Tantric Arts Trainings you will have the opportunity to:
- Delve into the spiritual paths that embrace sexuality
- Find out what sexual energy is and how to cultivate it
- Use your sexual energy for healing and awakening
- Learn to open your heart and channel ecstasy
- Transform your relationships
- Discover where orgasm becomes a spiritual experience
- Play with the polarities of the Divine Masculine and the Sacred Feminine
The Tantric and Taoist Arts can transform your life on many levels.
Return to your natural sexuality: your true nature embodied. Awaken the shakti lifeforce energy within you and become radiantly alive once more! And discover an energy that is naturally regenerative...it does not peak and later collapse. When you learn to channel your sexual energy you can return to the energy of your youth and stay there! (these are not called "longevity practices" for nothing!!
When sexuality and Spirituality merge, then each moment of your life is aligned in the creation of Love! This is what you came here for!

Next Women's Teacher Training:
Sacred Femininity
March 31st 2018, Bali
Immerse yourself in one whole five weeks of a women-only environment to explore our deepest depths in the loving field of the "Shakti Temple" (women's sacred space). Learn the ancient arts of sexual healing and activation of vitality and creative energy. After this month you will be empowered to guide other women, so that we may take each other by the hand and lead each other home to love.
These trainings book up fast and have long waiting lists, so check it out....
Sacred Femininity
March 31st 2018, Bali
Immerse yourself in one whole five weeks of a women-only environment to explore our deepest depths in the loving field of the "Shakti Temple" (women's sacred space). Learn the ancient arts of sexual healing and activation of vitality and creative energy. After this month you will be empowered to guide other women, so that we may take each other by the hand and lead each other home to love.
These trainings book up fast and have long waiting lists, so check it out....
Videos
Awakening Sexual Energy with the Tao |
Lilou Mace interviews Shashi Solluna |