I used to think Tantric Massage was only for professionals who want to offer sexological bodywork to clients for a living.
However, then I discovered it has another incredible potential that not so many people consider. It is an absolutely amazing tool for couples to learn together to upgrade their love life!
I made this discovery one year when myself and my partner were assisting on a three-week massage training in Greece. Though there was the option to change partner, we found our preference was to stay with each other. We were deeply in love and just wanted to touch each other all of the time! The blend of giving and receiving tantric massage all day, eating delicious Greek food and swimming in turquoise ocean waters really brought us to heaven on earth! We couldn’t think of a better way to spend time with one another.
But it was not only the training itself, but knowing the skill of Tantra Massage can bring a whole extra element to your love life as a couple.
Very often, couples focus their love life around the act of sexual penetration itself. Which, of course, is a wonderful way for a couple to bond. However, a whole other element is introduced when they also include whole evenings dedicated to one partner giving to the other. Many types of giving pleasure and foreplay have a giver and receiver, but even so it is often still a two-way interaction between the two. In Tantric Massage, it is very clear that one will receive and the other partner dedicates the time to giving touch to the other. It is a a total giving-receiving dynamic.
This can bring several benefits to intimacy, such as:
And if you want to take it to the next level, then choose a location in a beautiful holiday destination. That way your bodies will unwind even more deeply, and you will get to create a romantic experience together to boost your love life and create an experience you will never forget!
There are more and more couples' events appearing in the world of Tantra. Events that are designed to practice with just one person- the one you chose to be intimate with. You no longer have to choose between Tantric expansion and the holding of your relationship. It is possible to have the best of both worlds!
For information about couples' retreats and events, please check out our couples page.
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